Saturday, April 21, 2012

Why Ask?

当你问我,你觉得XXX是怎样的一个人, 我想你心里应该有了个谱。
问我也只是想知道,我的答案会不会跟你的一样。


所以,我的答案对你来说,一点都不重要。
一样的答案,会让你觉得很开心,很安慰。
不一样的答案,你就会尽力去说服我,让我改变观点,把答案变成和你一样。


如果是这样,我会选择不回答。


当要询问意见时,请把你的答案放下,诚恳地接受别人的意见。
毕竟,为何你要询问意见? 
询问是因为没有肯定的答案。
如果你肯定你的答案是正确的话,那又何必询问呢?


When you asked me on how I think about who who who, I think you have already have an answer to yourself.
Asking me is just to find out whether do I think the same as you do.


It doesn't matter how I answered it.
If the answer is what you expected, you will feel happy for sure.
If it doesn't, you will try your best to pursue me.


If this is the case, I would refuse to answer.


Be open if you are asking for opinion.
Asking is because you do not have a precise answer.
If you have an answer, then why ask?